1. Going out and drinking. I know guys need a night out every now and then, but there are plenty of other ways to go out instead of blowing money on drinking, especially when he drinks and I know how he acts when he drinks. It aggravates me.

2. His words. He is very good at wording things in such ways that they are not lies, but they are not the whole truth either. It bothers me when he doesn't want to tell me just the whole truth. Most of the time it is just miniscule things, but it makes me wonder if there is bigger things I just haven't caught sometimes. He is ex-military, so he sometimes claims that he can lie very good because of the military & I feel like I want to blame it on that.

3. Going out with me. This used to be a huge one with us, but I have gotten over it lately because I have been so exhausted with our little man, that I don't feel like doing anything. I used to tell him all the time that I would love for him to take me out, and do what he normally does with his guys -- or just take me dancing. Yeah. Everytime we went out, he would ask what I wanted to do. I would tell him he knew what I wanted to do, but whatever we do is fine with me because I am just with him. He would always say, well let's go see a movie or something instead. It would always irk me when I would wear a little extra makeup or dress a little differently than I normally dressed, to see if he caught the idea... nope, never did. We did go out dancing once, but I am shy -- so I didn't get up and he claimed himself to be too tired, so we sat at a table the entire time just talking. We're dorks. Another time, me and one of my friend (who was dating the guy my husband was out with that night) went and surprised them by meeting up with them at the club, we danced (first time ever) but that is it.

4. Girls he talks to. We have gotten into plenty of fights in the past over friends he has had, or friends he was picking out. I have gotten onto him about saying he loved a girl once, but he claimed that she was like a sister to him. Obviously it wasn't mutual because she tried bribing him with sex to come and visit her. Yeah, that friendship was cut off after that. He has chatted with girls, the first time they meet, and gotten their numbers. I tell him that even if they know he is married, that just sends the wrong message, don't you think?

5. Sex. I'll just say I'm the male in this relationship and want it more than he does.

... the good thing is all of these things have calmed down quite a bit recently. He is starting to understand, and we haven't fought in almost three months (well except for a small one here or there, over just getting frustrated and then saying sorry five minutes later). The good thing is, we are married, and none of our major fights have been over money! I am so glad. Normally that is one of the top fights with married couples. We have our finances straight and our buying priorities are the same.

@MistletoeLove - Haha. There must be more women like this in the world than I thought. My bff is the same way.