Monday, 01 December 2008
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Difference between Making love and Sex
"Making Love" and having "Sex ".
I have been in two serious relationships thus far, in my first relationship we dated off and on for a year and a half and well we had our ups and downs and whenever it came to sex.. with him i never thought about it..I didn't put a thought towards what it really was. You get to a point in life ( well so i think) that it means more. There IS a difference i believe.
I discussed this with my current bf .. my 2nd serious relationship..and he put a whole new spin on how i think about it. I asked him if he thought there was a difference.. and his response was " Yes" yes in the fact that Making love is "Motive".. you care about the person and you start off with either one of two thoughts. A. Just wanting sex.. wanting the what comes from sex. B. Being in love and showing your partner how much you love them by the act itself.
There are many ways to show someone you love them but the act of " Making love" is something much more intimate.. more personal..then simply a card or a gift. Its something that is shared between two in a comfortable atmosphere. You feel as if you are one rather then two people living separate lives.. and we all at some point want that feeling of being the most important aspect of someones life. To feel safe.. and loved. Don't get me wrong.. you can still have " sex" with someone you're in a relationship with, even if you are in love with them.. it can turn into just sex.
Do you believe there is a difference between " Making love" and "Sex"? If so.. whats the difference?
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